Real or Virtual?

Sure you had met the person

in real

& you still meet or rather see that person in real

But when you know that same person


It has an advantage and a disadvantage

The reason is those hours of chatting

you grow gradually to know that person

Coz that person shares with you

even the most crucial aspects of his/her life

At that time you are just you & that person

it is your quality time

But the worst thing in such cases

when all you converse is just over the Net

You don’t get to see the real person

How the person behaves in front of her/his friends?

How much fun you’d have made

if you had talked face-to-face?

The chat over internet tells you nothing about their mood

But just gives you momentary happiness

However, the real chat is always out of the world phenomenon,

if you starve for it!

Those moments of laughter

will stay with you lifelong as precious memories

The chat, however, would also stay,

but as the biggest confusion of your life!

As the heartthrob of the TV industry

had once said in one of his episodes

“Sometimes trying to clear confusions

can create more confusions.”

So does happen in social media

In a few days you develop a confusion you want to clear

So you start the chat

Not knowing the real mood,

nor the real behaviour,

nor the real expression

of the person;

you initiate more confusions

You start doubting whether

the person you know is real or virtual?

Chat messages are not instantaneous always

They are made up sentences

and not raw

Before trusting them blindly,

remember that even this article was cleverly manufactured to post in this blog and convey you my feelings.!




  1. Ashish kumar · August 29, 2015

    good read… liked it… πŸ™‚

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Imran Ali · May 31, 2016

    Many fall into this trap. They think they’re in love with a personality on social media. They forget in reality, it’s often very different.

    Liked by 1 person

    • Sheetal Pahadi · May 31, 2016

      It’s like a mirage. Most of the people can’t differentiate that.

      Liked by 1 person

      • Imran Ali · May 31, 2016

        Actually the see what they want to see….no link with realism nor ground reality …..I think our Bollywood is main culprit

        Liked by 1 person

        • Sheetal Pahadi · May 31, 2016

          No no. Can’t put the whole blame on Bollywood.
          It’s the normal human tendency these days, I guess. The social life = the virtual life.

          Liked by 1 person

          • Imran Ali · May 31, 2016

            it’s good to tell ourselves that realism, despite being boring, is the best medicine for our wishful souls

            Liked by 1 person

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